US grind done but no H1B luck, what now?
Came to the US for masters, finished it in 1.5 years during what felt like one of the worst job markets ever (solid timing, I know). Did on-campus jobs just to survive and somehow landed a full-time role right after graduation on OPT at one of the top banks.
Started with approx $40K education loan, paid it off (thank god), and even managed to save close to $100K over time. On paper it sounds great… but the visa anxiety is basically a permanent subscription at this point.
I’m 29 now, been through 3 H1B lottery attempts (Level 3 filing gang) and still no luck. At this point I’m convinced my name is just not in the simulation. Mentally it’s exhausting doing everything “right” and still having your future decided by a random draw.
Now I’m at that crossroads where I could probably move back home via internal transfer, get \~30 LPA in my home city, be closer to family, and finally live a life where I don’t check “H1B news” like it’s stock market earnings. Also yes… MARRIAGE pressure has officially entered the chat.
Not really sure what’s the smart move anymore. Anyone here in the same boat, or already went back home after the US grind? Did you feel relief, regret, or just peace? Would genuinely love to hear how it played out for you or what you’d do in this situation.