relationship ruined..?
my boyfriend recently started zoloft, it’s only been about 2-3weeks but he has become a whole different person. For context we are long distance so communication and being in touch is very important of course. Not only that we was extremely clingy (definitely more than average) we would be on the phone 24/7 he would make time to talk to me even if he was at work, would put me in his pocket or set me up on the phone anywhere he went, we would fall asleep on the phone everything. Recently we haven’t had any phone at all. if we do he hangs up snifter a few minutes or if we are for prolonged times he is on tiktok the whole time. he doesn’t engage or start conversation anymore, he will go all day without texting me until i double text. barely says i love you anymore. rarely any goodmorining or goodnight texts. i don’t know. he did recently ask if i wanted to stay on the phone with him while he works (which i use to do daily). i told him whatever he’s comfortable with. he told me he actually has had way less anxiety with me off the phone, mind you he was the phone pushing us always being on the phone if i hung up for anything he would get upset. i understand that the medications could be helping with things like this and the anxious attachment. but now he doesn’t talk to me at all. it’s really hurting me. i think with the distance it’s more important for communication but now i have none. i don’t know. i haven’t said anything to him because he says he’s loving the medication and stuff but it’s hurting us.