20M 24F advice about fights between us?
We have been dating for 2 years now from the last 2 months it has been constant fights and its getting regular
Yesterday she said to me why she is getting chidchida when ever I make a mistake or do something that she doesn't like.
She said her friend is influenced her as she also has a Boyfriend and they are in a strong relationship for almost 5 years now and whenever they had a fight she would tell the whole to her and she started to scold me and started to give me cold replies whenever she gets angry but still I keep replying her till she finally tells me what I did as a mistake.
She also said they updated each other instantly which I can't do everytime.
It started with late night calls like 11 pm Where she would talk less like 30% of the time she would start a topic and only continued whenever I started another topic. Whenever I am in a loss of topics I start to talk gibberish(random things) and sometimes it worked and sometimes it started more fights
Sometimes I messup which acts like water in oil
It's getting difficult for me and her as these constant fights are taking some toll on both of us.
But atleast she doesn't ghost me We never used to fight before 3 months but in these months the fights regularly happened
I also did my fair share of mistakes to make her angry by not understanding her half or not understanding her completely.
How not to fight more!