u/Flashy_Juggernaut401

Been married for 4 years
Both gained 100 lbs eating and drinking
I’ve lost 20 working out/diet
I’m 35, not sure if we’ll ever be able to have kids.
I’m not sure if I want kids.
I feel alone in my efforts to be healthy and try to cut back, or there’s always a fight or argument when I want him to.
You guys can be honest with me. I don’t want to leave but I feel like he’s going to learn a very hard lesson if we can’t have kids because he physically can’t and won’t get healthy enough to.
He’s my best friend and starting over just isn’t going to happen.