My boyfriend has had problems with his mental health recently. He fell out with his son and that lead to his family taking the son in and turning there back on him. They've all just completely fallen out. He became really withdrawn, stopped eating going to work etc. At one point while I was at work he text me that he was leaving me and wanted to start afresh. Fortunately he didnt leave and we had a long talk about how he needed help. He went to the doctors and was diagnosed with depression. Started tablets to help. I thought things might be fixable with his family once he was in a better head frame. His dad text me every so often to check in.
He started to become more himself over the weeks. He started a second job and that was to repayment of some debts and help with the future. He wanted us to finally get a mortgage and for a 2 bedroom with a second room for his son if he wanted. Holidays, marriage that was all his plan. Thought things were looking up.
Recently his dad text me and turns out they have fell out again. This completely changed his behaviour. He said he was tired of pretending and we were done. I was devastated. This isnt first time this has happened but this time its final.
.im still at the house, he wanted us both to continue living there civially until I could find somewhere new and we had just paid for thr month. I didnt really know what to do my head is fucked tbf.
Yesterday he text me while he was at work, his plan is to continue working for a while to help me with money and put money aside for his kid and then he is gping to get on a train disappear and end it. He's had enough, hes okay with it and that he can't do this anymore. Hes also been self harming. He won't talk to me and I dont know what I need to do. I dont want to live here alone and do nothing. But that is his plan..who should I contact, he'll hate me but I dont care?