Can someone tell me what it means when the communication almost completely stops and he's just sending reels all day instead of having convos like we did before? It's so confusing and idk if i should address it. Im tired of the unclarity and im too grown for this so I wanna know if i should ask him what the bibe is right now. Last date was a week ago.
I have been talking to this guy for about 2 months now and at first everything was great and the communication was consistent, Now its just so fucking weird and idk what to do about it. about 2 weeks ago he was supposed to take me out on a date when he cancelled last minute apparently he had a meeting he wasn't aware about. This was supposed to be our 5th date. I showed attitude and I dont think he liked it and he got sassy with me then proceeded to ghost me for a week and then sent me some stupid reel that said "when hes not understanding what you're saying so you start speaking car" and it was an audio of a car reving up. I thought it was weird asf so I never replied (i restricted him before opening the dm so he wouldn't see I saw it) and he ended up unsending the reel. He then texted me back 2 days later asking If everything's good, I interrogated him a bit and we ended up talking on the phone, He apologised and I forgave him. He had just gotten a new role at his job as a manager of his team and he had been showing proof so I believed it and felt bad so I gave him another chance. Anyways, after the call we had communication was good and he was asking to see me etc. Right before I went on a trip to nyc, we saw each other and it went well and we spoke about some serious stuff and he told me he is serious about me which I had doubts about and he wouldn't play games with me. The trip comes and he's communicating on the first day and then its literally all reels he sends. Its been reels since Sunday I think and I used to reply and laugh but now it's just so low effort that i rlly dgaf and will either like the reel or ignore. I assume he has probably lost interest but I don't know if I should bring it up and the unclarity is making me go insane and I don't feel like myself anymore because he's all I think about all day. He's all I want in a guy and hes always planning dates taking initiative but the communication is pissing me off. Could someone give me some advice on this :/