u/Flat-Health-2399

I’m sure lots of men here have had to deal with this. I believe that I am on the cusp of uncovering a lot of hidden bad debt. Based on a few things I have uncovered it seems she has a lot of delinquent CC debt. I asked her about this months ago and she denied any overdue bills or hidden accounts.

She has no bills. I pay for everything. She makes good money. If she indeed does have 10k? 20k? More?? Of bad debt I can’t understand what in the world she is spending money on. She does seem unhappy. She’s been that way for a good bit of our 4 year marriage (the sex stopped a long time ago).

I don’t want to get divorced as we have a child but if that is where this is going i wanted to get feedback from others who have been in this situation.