u/Flat-Mycologist-3839

Last 3 years. Lost 3 family members and 1 close friend to cancer.

Completely sympathetic to the spouses of those family members. 100%.

That said....we're here, family. Supporting and loving these people and I don't want to say we're forgotten however....our loss is ... diminished (?) in the eyes of others. (or perhaps feels this way).

I've got more to say but this is enough. I'm very sad...for all of them..and me.