What do I do?
Okay you guys I need help with outside views on my love life. I am ‘21 F’ , my boyfriend ‘31 M’ and I had been together almost a year, we don’t live together or have any kids. So nothing like that keeping me with him. Over our relationship I have put every last cent of love and effort into loving him and being there for him and being “wifey” material. About 2 months ago I found out he had been talking to other women on tinder. Idk if he really did meet up and cheat on me but that’s still micro cheating. He stopped talking about the future. I spent Thanksgiving, Easter and Valentine’s Day alone because we were either fighting or he was “in his head” and stayed home and left me alone at my home. So I left him. He would always promise to change and do better and he never did. Now a couple weeks after we broke up he realized he fucked up. He wants to try and be there for me and love me and have a future. And I love him so much I just wanna fold and be with him. But idk what to do, if forgiving him and trying again is the right choice or if I have to let go and move on. I’m really hurting and stuck.