u/Flat-Weather-5185

Hi, 35 mft here.

I pass, and when I go out I am always being hit on - mostly by guys of course.
I am not complaining, although it's relatively new for me.

I've gone out to clubs/bars a few times recently, and before I knew it I had some guys tongue down my throat. Twice I ended up at home with a guy, one night at a guys place, and another at my place.

The trans thing NEVER came up, but I was scared. I ended up staying dressed, giving them a bj and leaving / sending them off. I am NOT doing this stealth thing again (although I enjoyed it, it was scary).

How do you handle this? Do you tell someone like the first thing when they come over to talk? That would seem really awkward. But considering how fast some of these guys move....

Edit: Why am I being downvoted here? It's a legit question. How/when do you bring this up?