u/FlatPersonality7213

i’m 20, 5’4, 125 pounds and I had a pilonidal cyst and it got so bad within a span of three days i had to have it lanced and drained. it drained for three days and now the cyst is still there but not really hurting like it was. it’s still sore and i can’t sit for long periods or lean certain ways.

ive had a lot of people tell me to go ahead and get the surgery but i’m very hesitant to because of how long recovery is. should i get the surgery?

so on april 4th, my bf and i had unprotected sex. i took a plan b less than 16 hours later. he didn’t ejaculate inside of me but we were worried because my ovulation time was coming up in a few days so i took it to be safe. i took a pregnancy test 19 days later and it was negative.

fast forward to april 27th, we had slight unprotected sex, he was inside of me but not thrusting or doing anything and it was for about 15-30 seconds. then april 28th, he was inside of me again but both times he wasn’t all the way inside of me. he wasn’t even close to ejaculatimg and he kept pulling out and wiping himself off even though he was only inside a couple of times. he was behind me so he wasn’t fully inside anyways. he hadn’t previously cum and he peed before both of these incidents. my oura ring detected ovulation on the 22nd which makes sense because i ovulated late due to the plan b. i’m just super nervous because idk exactly where i am in my cycle because of the plan b. my app says im supposed to start my period in a couple of days but i know it will probably be delayed because of the plan b. i’m so scared that im pregnant.

we have since bought condoms and will be having protected sex!