u/Flat_Way_2070

Any thoughts or protocol on when you start seeing a girl at a different club and the prices are lower for VIP then in the original club you use to see her?

Is it ok for her to ask for the same amount? Or should I try and get more value for my $$$

An example situation would be:

Club A- 1-hour VIP room cost $100 to the club and 'at the dancers discretion' for her fee, lets say another $100

Club B- 1-hour VIP room cost for club + dancers fee included is $100 total

I have been seeing this girl for a couple months now and I really want to try out a sugar relationship with her, she has never done anything like that

I have been doing A LOT of research on sugar relationships (as I myself have never done this) and I think I am just about ready to try it. I did a bunch of reading up on the SLF reddit and other research

I am primarily a strip club guy and have been for years, so I kind of have concerns of how she may interpret this kind of arrangement especially since I don't have all that much experience in it. Also I worry that typical stripper mentality is to give guys as much fun on 1 night and drain their moneys as fast as possible on any 1 given night and sugaring would be different?

I have finally got her to agree and idk just wanted to see if anyone has any good pointers or red flags I should watch out for? Any past experiences like this where you start with a girl who has never done something like this before?

Oh also if there is a good resource, video, article or anything (other than the SLF reddit) to give her a better understanding of what real sugaring is so that she isnt just going off of the skewed perception that might be in the media or movies?

I really like this girl and we get along super well, so I dont think there will be too much trouble, but in convincing her to sugar with me I already saw some hesitation around the topic of "well why would I sugar with you if you already give me xxx in the club"