Boyfriend says I’m worrying too much because of my anxiety.
I just want to add some additional information I do suffer from pretty major social anxiety, and it’s gotten worse over the years.
My boyfriend and I got invited by his boss on a “Vacation”.
I just heard about it last week. ( all I got told about is the state, a picture of the place we’re staying at and the dates, and who is all going) Now I know with me having anxiety I worry about things that don’t need worried about.
But all this man is telling me is it’s gonna be coworkers and spouses and we’re just hanging out.
But I’m wanting more information, like at least should we bring groceries, are we going to be eating dinner together? Because these are things that I want to budget for as well.
I have no idea any activities we’ll be doing, so i have no idea what to pack for or if we would need anything.
There’s going to be like 10+ people, all who I have never met in a completely different environment.
Which is sending my anxiety sky rocketing because I have no information to mentally prepare for.
Every time I’m like can you find out more, all he says is “We’re just hanging out, stop worrying”
Which I understand, but we’re traveling 6+ hours, I want a little more than that especially since we also have a 6 year old. I’m worried that I’m expecting too much information..I don’t need a full hour by hour schedule, just a tad more than “Hanging out”
It’s like a month away so I’m kinda panicking lol.