u/Flimsy_Sir2676

You all got weird about my post before so here I am with as much info as I can give:

Past history: I worked full time and hard to make sure he and I had money while he wasn't working. Of course I tried to help him get work, but overall I didn't want him working in a place he hated.

I have come to a spot where I need to get help about my stress issues, so I got a job that was very low stress. Still supporting him . This has been the case for over 10 years

Our area wasn't great for finding a job. So I told him to look outside of town.

He got an interview... And then he got the job.

I left my job that was working for me, night audit at a hotel, barely seeing a dozen people all night, and he knew I took that job because I'm having serious mental health problems and it worked for me.

Now we are here living in a new state. With his sister (only the last few weeks) which isn't bad, and she only wants a little bit of money for rent, but he has regularly told me since we have been here that he could take care of me while I recuperate

Tonight he decided that I wasn't able to contribute based on changes in food stamp regulations and told me I have to get a job or move out.

Am I overreacting by being upset? Is this worth fighting over?

I worked nonstop for 10 years covering my husband and myself, happily . He had troubles finding jobs. I finally told him to take an interview in another state.. it worked. They gave him a job

Now we are here in the new state.

I fell into a mental health crisis a few years ago and went into night audit at a hotel where I basically only handle a few people, and imm not ready to go back out into the workforce yet. I tried a few jobs here but they were literally leading me towards a heart attack.(40yo with family history of before 50)

We are safe, paying a very minimum rent to his older sister. Everything seems fine.

Till today. He is mad at me because(and I know this is just usual mairriage drama) he never tells me the subject that he's speaking about so I just have to guess. Today I was wrong guessing. And when I told him to clarify he decided to hang up on our call and threaten that I shouldn't be here when he comes back

Please tell me if ITA