no friends at college, Im so cooked
Im 19f and I just finished my second year of college. I know a lot of people, I talk to a lot of people, and I laugh with a lot of people; I still have no friends. I joined clubs and volunteered for random positions just for some human connection, but it either ends up super cliquey or just very surface level.
Im feeling this loneliness intensely because for the past 2 weeks into my break I haven't received ONE dm from anyone from college without me having to reach out first, its kinda pathetic. I would also see stories from my hs friends with their new college friends, wishing them happy bday and stuff. But what do I post? reels and tiktoks? Because I genuinely had nobody to hang out with.
Im only close with one person but its so obvious that she doesnt view me as a "top priority friend" the same way i view her as one.
Im just really sad and I wish I had genuine friends i could hang out with