Looking fro advice from Libra women
54 M Aries and 55 F Libra. Opposites attract, right? We met online and everything started off so well. Lots of texts and good conversations, a first date that I don't think either of us wanted to end. The goodnight kiss was a bit awkward but all in all a great first date. It was the first time I've had a good feeling about meeting someone new in years. Lots of texting in between our next meeting. Second date, the initial contact and the end were still a bit awkward, but everything in between was great. Our conversations were relaxed and flowed naturally. More good convo prior to date three. Again, the beginning and end were just a bit awkward. By now I've concluded that we're just a couple of introverted goofballs and I'm hoping that we can figure out how to start and end each date on as good of a note as the middle. She spent time with her family afterwards and posted on fb about having an almost perfect day. I'm thinking cool. I realize I'm not the biggest reason she had a great day but at least I played a part in that.
A few days pass. Replies to texts start to become less frequent. Some are completely ignored. A week after our last meeting I asked if I said or did something wrong. Her reply was that she was busy, didn't see the texts I had sent in the last 24+ hours. (I don't buy it) She also says she didn't know what to say. She doesn't see a future because we have very little in common beyond both of us being "really nice people". She concluded by saying that she enjoyed our times together, I was so nice and I did everything right. She wished me good luck and said she was sorry.
I stewed on it a couple of hours, told her that while I was looking at the things we did have in common and was trying to build on that, apparently she was looking the other way. I wished her the best of luck and she again apologized.
After stewing on it some more, I don't think I'm ready to just roll over and give up on this without a fight. Meeting people is hard at this age and it's been almost a decade since I met someone I really clicked with.
So now the question for Libra women is, if I keep trying to push forward and attempt to get her to have a heart to heart conversation about what we both are after and why she doesn't see this going anywhere, am I coming across as too pushy? From what I know, Libras are indecisive (she has admitted as much) and tend to try and avoid conflict at all cost. I don't want to push the issue but at the same time what do I have to lose?
Any advice, good, bad or indifferent is welcome and appreciated.