u/FloTrades

Why it took me 7 years to become profitable and here are the mistakes every unprofitable trader makes

Many people will reading this will most likely be unprofitable I was that guy for many years took me 7 years. Why I took so long came down to a select few things but the main two was systemisation and journaling. This what I did not have any good concept of. You get to a point in trading that looking at charts for 10 hours is a waste of time. That’s a lot of you right now that is what you are doing thinking you are actually learning and improving I’ll keep it real that is the biggest cope but you just don’t realise it. I use to do this for years and it’s one of the reason why it took me so long.

What a lot of you traders need to be doing is find an effective method to journal that allows them to adjust strategies and form good exit and entry rules, so that you can repeat the same process over and over again until you see results. You should have a system that you understand so good it becomes very specific. This is trading not clicking a buy or sell button. You should spend 90% of your time on this if you want to improve your trading I swear it’s the only way you will ever make it in this business. Literally pick a strategy or two and refine them so well to the point you can’t anymore. Then make sure you journal every trade properly none of this google documents slop legitimate journaling with stats,breakdowns and processes. The best traders all do this they spend most of their time preparing and looking through their journal and then when it’s time to trade they smash it. Your psychology is something that should be mentioned continuously in your journal you need to do this to regulate your own trading style your own way. I recommend a lot of your traders to change your approach towards trading as it’s a very misinformed industry and these little unconscious actions can delay you for years or sometimes forever. Apart from that good luck to all of you and stay well.

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u/FloTrades — 5 days ago

1 trade this month. one. +17k. Why sizing is everything

When you've got no money in the account, trading is a different game. You're chasing. Every setup looks like the one. Scrolling charts at 11pm looking for a reason to be in something because being flat feels like you're falling behind. The account's too small to actually matter so you start treating it like a slot machine. You take the B-grade setup because the A-grade didn't show up and you "need" to be doing something.

Once the account got to a level where one good trade actually meant something, everything changed. I got picky. Properly picky. Days without taking anything because nothing met the criteria, and that felt fine because I wasn't desperate for action anymore. Look at how BTC has been chopping in consolidation for weeks old me would've been in and out of that mess 30 times trying to force something. This month I sat on my hands, waited for one trade that actually fit the setup, and that single trade did 17k.

Same person, same charts. Different account size, completely different behaviour.

Sizing is where most people get it wrong. It isn't "risk 1% per trade" and call it a day. It's the thing that quietly dictates your entire psychology. Too small and you chase. Too big and every trade becomes a stress event where you're managing the position emotionally instead of mechanically. The sweet spot is where the win feels meaningful but the loss doesn't ruin you. Finding that spot is one of the most underrated skills in trading and almost nobody talks about it properly.

Scaling is the other half. Most people scale wrong. Double their size after a good week, get hit with a normal drawdown at the bigger size, panic, blow back to where they started. Real scaling is slow, comes off months of consistent execution, and the size increases should feel almost boring. If a size bump makes your heart rate jump when you put a trade on, you've gone too big too fast.

The lesson isn't "go get a bigger account" because most of you can't just do that. It's that the behaviour you're stuck in isn't a skill issue. Your account size is forcing you to chase, and no amount of "discipline" will fix it while you're sitting on £500 trying to make rent off the markets. Save up. Trade tiny while you save, treat it like sim. The discipline you can't find now will show up on its own when the size makes one trade actually matter.

I'll put up a separate post soon walking through how I actually approach sizing and scaling the framework, when I bump size, when I cut back. If that's something you'd want, let me know in the comments and I'll prioritise it.

https://preview.redd.it/oepcdbjwqj1h1.png?width=1788&format=png&auto=webp&s=4e74ea49e8bf5c7a515278407ab3b53065cf1770

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u/FloTrades — 7 days ago

1 trade this month+17k. Why sizing is everything

When you've got no money in the account, trading is a different game. You're chasing. Every setup looks like the one. Scrolling charts at 11pm looking for a reason to be in something because being flat feels like you're falling behind. The account's too small to actually matter so you start treating it like a slot machine. You take the B-grade setup because the A-grade didn't show up and you "need" to be doing something.

Once the account got to a level where one good trade actually meant something, everything changed. I got picky. Properly picky. Days without taking anything because nothing met the criteria, and that felt fine because I wasn't desperate for action anymore. Look at how BTC has been chopping in consolidation for weeks old me would've been in and out of that mess 30 times trying to force something. This month I sat on my hands, waited for one trade that actually fit the setup, and that single trade did 17k.

Same person, same charts. Different account size, completely different behaviour.

Sizing is where most people get it wrong. It isn't "risk 1% per trade" and call it a day. It's the thing that quietly dictates your entire psychology. Too small and you chase. Too big and every trade becomes a stress event where you're managing the position emotionally instead of mechanically. The sweet spot is where the win feels meaningful but the loss doesn't ruin you. Finding that spot is one of the most underrated skills in trading and almost nobody talks about it properly.

Scaling is the other half. Most people scale wrong. Double their size after a good week, get hit with a normal drawdown at the bigger size, panic, blow back to where they started. Real scaling is slow, comes off months of consistent execution, and the size increases should feel almost boring. If a size bump makes your heart rate jump when you put a trade on, you've gone too big too fast.

The lesson isn't "go get a bigger account" because most of you can't just do that. It's that the behaviour you're stuck in isn't a skill issue. Your account size is forcing you to chase, and no amount of "discipline" will fix it while you're sitting on £500 trying to make rent off the markets. Save up. Trade tiny while you save, treat it like sim. The discipline you can't find now will show up on its own when the size makes one trade actually matter.

I'll put up a separate post soon walking through how I actually approach sizing and scaling the framework, when I bump size, when I cut back. If that's something you'd want, let me know in the comments and I'll prioritise it.

https://preview.redd.it/8glhtsjtki1h1.png?width=1801&format=png&auto=webp&s=85fe4679e82e7d73268b14c0a62c4ca1197e517f

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u/FloTrades — 7 days ago

You're not gambling against the house in trading you ARE the house (most traders never realise this)

Quick question. Has anyone here ever walked into a casino and sat down at a card table?

If you have, you already know the deal. The casino has a tiny edge on every single hand. Not a big one. Just small enough that you convince yourself you can beat it. That's the trick. That's why you keep coming back. You start building systems, counting cards in your head, telling yourself you've cracked it.

But the house always wins. Over time. Remember that word.

Now here's where it gets interesting.

Trading is the exact same game. Same probabilities, same psychology, same dopamine loop. But there's one massive difference most people never figure out:

In trading, there is no house on the other side of you.

Nobody forced you to click buy. Nobody forced you to click sell. Your friend didn't place the trade. The broker didn't place the trade. You did. Which means the house isn't some faceless institution taking your money.

You are the house.

And if you're the house, you don't get to play like a gambler. You set the rules. You decide what hands you'll deal yourself. You decide the edge. You decide when to walk away from the table. Every trade you take without an edge is the house betting against itself and you already know how that ends.

What was the keyword again? Oh yeah. Over time.

That's the part nobody wants to hear. You're not going to feel like a genius tomorrow. The shift happens in small wins that stack on top of each other for months. But once your brain flips from "gambler trying to beat the house" to "house running the game" everything changes. Your losses stop feeling personal. Your wins stop feeling lucky. It just becomes math you happen to be running.

Anyway. Good luck out there. Don't let the house lose. 😉

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u/FloTrades — 9 days ago

Not even joking. decided to drop cigarettes about 2 years ago and it bled into everything else. gym got more consistent, sleep got better, routine tightened up.

Then I noticed my trading improved too. not because of some magic focus boost or whatever, but because it's all the same muscle. discipline is discipline. if you can force yourself to not do the easy comfortable thing in one area, you start doing it everywhere.

Most people's problem with trading isn't strategy. it's discipline. you already know what you're supposed to do, you just don't do it. same reason you skip the gym or grab the cigarette.

Doesn't have to be cigarettes either. Whatever you're addicted to vaping, weed, drinking, doomscrolling, whatever try cutting it. I promise you'll see it show up in your trading. the discipline you build fighting that urge is the exact same discipline you need to stick to your plan and not revenge trade.

Fix the small stuff outside of trading and the trading follows. sounds corny but it's real.

still smoking cigars though lol those can stay

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u/FloTrades — 18 days ago
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A 45% win rate with a 2.5R (your average win is 2.5x your average loss) prints money. But most traders will never run that system long enough to see it work because their ego can't handle being wrong more than half the time.

That's the entire game right there.

The market doesn't reward intelligence. It rewards obedience to a process. The best traders aren't the smartest people in the room — they're the most boring. Same setup, same risk, same execution, 200 times in a row without flinching.

A few things nobody wants to hear:

One trade is meaningless. Ten trades are meaningless. Your edge (the statistical advantage your strategy has) doesn't even begin to reveal itself until 100+ trades. Most people blow up or switch strategy by trade 15.

"How do I make more money" is the wrong question. "How do I lose less" is the right one. Capital preservation isn't sexy. Nobody makes content about it. But every successful trader I know says the same thing protect the downside and the upside handles itself.

Revenge trading (taking a trade immediately after a loss to "win it back") has a near-zero expected value. You're not trading the market anymore, you're trading your emotions. The market doesn't know you just lost. It doesn't care.

Drawdowns (streaks of losses that shrink your account from its peak) are not bugs. They're a feature. Every edge goes through them. If your system can't survive a drawdown, it's not a system it's a coin flip with extra steps.

The best edge you will ever find is the ability to do nothing when nothing should be done.

Disagree with any of this?

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u/FloTrades — 26 days ago