Need advice - Young couple just getting into it, scared about getting outed?
Hello
I didn’t know where to write this, so I thought I’d come here. My gf and I are both in our early 20’s, and after a long time of talking about swinging or watching her with other people, we decided to take a step towards it with no like guarantees or anything.
We met what seems to be a cool guy off a website, joyclub, as we live in Germany.
And my gf seems to be into it, so am I, only issue is that I have this fear, which maybe is irrational, which is like what if the person just exposes us down the line or speaks about it casually etc.
I guess I’m so sensitive to this stuff and I’d be absolutely down to things if I knew everything is going to be under wraps, but there is no way for that to be the case.
You just have to trust.
I’m just wondering if anyone had the same issue before or something, and how they dealt with it.