flirting with girls
this must be a question people ask all the time, but i find it so hard to flirt with girls????
im newly out as i used to push these feelings down for yearssss, and now that im finally embracing it, i'm so lost on where to begin dating women.
for starters, i dont even know how to recognise sapphics in the wild, let alone approach them.
people have told me that they just have this "vibe" to them, but where i live everybody has got that vibe about them.
and then the talking part, like i know it should be simple, that i should just talk to them in a lower-pitched voice so it doesnt sound like i'm complimenting a fellow girlypop, but rather a romantic interest, but i still struggle with the phrasing of things, and asking them if they're into women, you know...
for context i'm also autistic, which, in this case, does not help!
can anyone help?