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BF[27M] gets mad when i [25F] change my mind about having sex

So I probably already know what majority of the answers will be but I thought I would give myself a peace of mind.

My boyfriend and I have been arguing lately because on some days I will say I want to have sex later or that I’ll give him head later but then when later comes I have now changed my mind and don’t want to do it.

He gets very annoyed and upset over it and says I shouldn’t be making those “promises” if I’m not going to follow through. I have of course tried to tell him that I am completely within my right to change my mind if I am no longer feeling that way but then he gets adamant on the part of me “teasing” him for something that won’t happen.

It’s important to note that he does not get stuck over me not following other promises like when I say i’ll give him a massage. We are also with each other 24/7 (we live, work, and hang out together (i know)) so in some of these moments I’ll say I want to do something later because there is no option to do so right there and then in that moment (in the office, driving somewhere etc)

Who is in the wrong?

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