u/FluffySuggestion4308

My last post this week was about my fiance going through menopause and questioning her sexuality. Well I guess she is no longer questioning I guess she decided she isn't sure she wants to be with a woman for the rest of her life so she said to me. Needless to say we are splitting up. We were together for 2 years and I guess I just don't understand any of this. We had all the keys to a healthy relationship and I just didn't see this coming.

I guess I should've known going into the relationship that she had never been in a relationship with a woman. She has been with women in the past but not a relationship. I'm not sure I have a question or if I am venting but I am just devasted.

Hello I’m 44 and I’ve been openly and proudly out for 30 years. Two years again my fiance pursued me and we fell in love. My fiance is 45 and although she has been with women not ever a committed relationship such as ours. She is the type that doesn’t care what people think and has never seemed like she was concerned about being gay. Fast forward to 3 weeks ago where she said she is having a hard time because she keeps wondering if she really is gay. Side note she has been having a hard time with menopause and keeps saying she doesn’t feel like herself and she is so numb feeling and depressed.
She says she loves me so much and she isnt sure what’s happening.

I guess my question is this situation kind of normal with everything that goes on with life and hormones. We are currently slowing things down so she can figure out what’s going on but I just feel like I don’t know if it’s menopause or just deciding she doesn’t want to be with a woman. Our sex life has never been an issue or anything like that so I don’t know I’m just confused.

Any feedback welcome