Every day is a fight for basic decency
I am not sure I’ve ever started a post here though I’ve commented on a few. I’ve seen quite a posts by new lawyers and many others at all career stages expressing anxiety, frustration, being exhausted, and looking for advice or solace or just some kind of communion with other lawyers. Let me be bold and just say something really simple. The LEAST we can do is be just decent to each other. We are the social lubricant that allows a somewhat civil and seemingly increasingly contentious, depressed,and distraught society continue to function. It’s not an easy gig for all the reasons: law school isn’t great training, firms work people to the point they have do not have the time for the serendipities and ah-ha moments that come only after you’ve given your brain a rest, judges are unpredictable, the law is often unintuitive, opposing counsels are sometimes unnecessarily contentious, the rules can be vague, our colleagues may be difficult, and we are in an anxious society. In sum, be nice to each other if possible. It’s really not hard to be nice. Doesn’t mean being saccharine or avoiding the difficult lessons most of us have learned and passing them on forthrightly. But please consider being just a tad nicer, kinder, and generally be the person we all hope we would find in our professional lives. As someone might say, thank for your attention to this matter. : )