u/Foreign-Kiwi-2233

▲ 11 r/Chefs

Am I The Asshole for not wanting to cover work all the time ?

I have been in foodservice work for 10 years now - I started in the kitchen in college and then worked as a distributor sales rep ( Sysco & US Foods) , Protein Specialists at distirbutors and then as manufacturer sales manager while working side kitchen gig for cash ( especially starting COVID - my paycheck became way too low based on my commission during that time and I had good food truck customers who had to close down the restaurants, but were free to serve customers traveling around residency and asked me to work together which I really enjoyed learning new things while having flexible schedule working volumes).

I have been always doing sushi & ramen as well as korean cuisines, after recent divorce last year, I jumped on 20 hours per week kitchen gig as side on top of my 8-4 PM main job Mon to Friday. This is a family owned restaurant now and new management took over this February, and I swear every single fucking week- line cooks calling in sick once or twice a week and I have been covering everytime. I never said no, but last two times I did say no because I feel like it is becoming habits - literally one cook has been missing work on Sunday for last 6 weeks that I helped coming in last minute (1-2 hours before the restaurant opens) working whole day - I work Friday night and Saturday all day and having to work Sunday all day on top of that for some bullshit excuse like her saying " i have period it hurts so much" really annoys me especially being last minute, but I don't want to take over sunday regulary cause I need at least one full day off balancing my both jobs. Owner/Management is frustrated with this issue too but hasn't done anything yet.

IDK, I worked last night after refusing to cover someone on Sunday - and I felt like I got so much attitudes from them because I refused. I went to funeral's friend and they don't even ask single shit about it which is OK, but overall through the whole shift, it just felt different.

I wanted to set boundaries, but I just feel like its too late cause I have always said yes to cover all the time now they think its not helping, but they just expect this of me.

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u/Foreign-Kiwi-2233 — 4 days ago
▲ 0 r/legal

6 Felonies/2MIS charge - chances of diversion/deferred adjustication?

Location : Colorado

Good friend of mine has been recently arrested for burglary and while he was arrested, cops picked up the warrant that was outstanding in other county. Now he is facing 6 Felonies and 3 Misdemenors across two county

* County 1) 2nd Degree Felony Burglary (Forced Entry into empty residence, F3), Criminal Attempt to commit class three felony (F4), Criminal Attempt to commit other misdemenor (M3)

* County 2) 2 Felony Cyber Crimes, 2 Felony Thefts, 1 Misdemenor unemployment fraud - all these are tied together him filing wrong info/receiving money from government - from what I knew, he owes more than 10K

He is currently using the same lawyer for both cases, and out on the bond - recently divorced and got laid off from work, so in tough position with everything together.

Is there a chance that he may be able to get diversion/deferred adjuntion types to eventually get record expundged? Since he is facing charges in two different counties, would it be harder for him to get better plea deals? What would most like outcome looking like? probation or jail?

His lawyer waived prelimnary hearing in exchange for the offer that has been given by DA- so sounds like plea deal is already on the table and negotiating.

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u/Foreign-Kiwi-2233 — 4 days ago

Chance of Diversion/Deffered adjudication?

Good friend of mine has been recently arrested for burglary and while he was arrested, cops picked up the warrant that was outstanding in other county. Now he is facing 6 Felonies and 3 Misdemenors across two county

* County 1) 2nd Degree Felony Burglary (Forced Entry into empty residence, F3), Criminal Attempt to commit class three felony (F4), Criminal Attempt to commit other misdemenor (M3)

* County 2) 2 Felony Cyber Crimes, 2 Felony Thefts, 1 Misdemenor unemployment fraud - all these are tied together him filing wrong info/receiving money from government - from what I knew, he owes more than 10K

He is currently using the same lawyer for both cases, and out on the bond - recently divorced and got laid off from work, so in tough position with everything together.

Is there a chance that he may be able to get diversion/deferred adjuntion types to eventually get record expundged? Since he is facing charges in two different counties, would it be harder for him to get better plea deals? What would most like outcome looking like? probation or jail?

His lawyer waived prelimnary hearing in exchange for the offer that has been given by DA- so sounds like plea deal is already on the table and negotiating.

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u/Foreign-Kiwi-2233 — 5 days ago

Chance of Diversion/Deferred Adjunction? (6 Felonies, 3 Misdemenors)

Good friend of mine has been recently arrested for burglary and while he was arrested, cops picked up the warrant that was outstanding in other county. Now he is facing 6 Felonies and 3 Misdemenors across two county

* County 1) 2nd Degree Felony Burglary (Forced Entry into empty residence, F3), Criminal Attempt to commit class three felony (F4), Criminal Attempt to commit other misdemenor (M3)

* County 2) 2 Felony Cyber Crimes, 2 Felony Thefts, 1 Misdemenor unemployment fraud - all these are tied together him filing wrong info/receiving money from government - from what I knew, he owes more than 10K

He is currently using the same lawyer for both cases, and out on the bond - recently divorced and got laid off from work, so in tough position with everything together.

Is there a chance that he may be able to get diversion/deferred adjuntion types to eventually get record expundged? Since he is facing charges in two different counties, would it be harder for him to get better plea deals? What would most like outcome looking like? probation or jail?

His lawyer waived prelimnary hearing in exchange for the offer that has been given by DA- so sounds like plea deal is already on the table and negotiating.

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u/Foreign-Kiwi-2233 — 5 days ago

When/Why would you recommend your client to waive a preliminary hearing?

My friend was recently arrested for 2nd degree burglary, Victim has fled the country for his own legal matters ( he is handling case over the sea through attorney), and thus refusing to give any further statement from his side. The reporting party who worked with the victim also is leaving the country by the end of this month and do not want to be involved into the matter further ( he is illegally staying in the country so I believe that might be why).

Friend is currently facing 6 felonies and 3 misdemeanors in two different counties.

His defense attorney mentioned today in hearing that defendant is waiving the right for preliminary hearing in exchange for the offer that has been extended by the district attorney and ask this matter to bound over to the division court few weeks later.

Does that mean likely they are working on plea negotiations like deferred adjunctions or diversion type of probation or do they need more time to gather evidence to fight the case?

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u/Foreign-Kiwi-2233 — 9 days ago
▲ 11 r/Felons

When/why would you waive the preliminary hearing?

My friend was recently arrested for 2nd degree burglary, Victim has fled the country for his own legal matters ( he is handling case over the sea through attorney), and thus refusing to give any further statement from his side. The reporting party who worked with the victim also is leaving the country by the end of this month and do not want to be involved into the matter further ( he is illegally staying in the country so I believe that might be why)

His defense attorney mentioned today in hearing that defendant is waiving the right for preliminary hearing in exchange for the offer that has been extended by the district attorney and ask this matter to bound over to the division court few weeks later.

Does that mean likely they are working on plea negotiations like deferred adjunctions or diversion type of probation or do they need more time to gather evidence to fight the case?

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u/Foreign-Kiwi-2233 — 9 days ago
▲ 5 r/Felons

My friend was arrested 3 weeks ago for 2nd degree burglary and attempted misdemanor/felony for criminal attempts - during the arrest, apparently he had warrant and charges out for fugitive of justice in same county that he was living in.

He cut off everyone including me since then- including his ex-wife that he just divorced and his kid is also being taken care by strictly his mom.

I saw his court information online, so contacted court clerk- apparently the fugitive case has 4 felonies and 1 misdemanor under it - 2 felony thefts, 2 felony cyber crime, 1 unemployment fraud (I was aware of this one, he mentioned they mailed him and he needs to pay back)

I have no idea what he did for cyber crimes, but assuming it must be related to the money.

I have gone through legal fight myself for one felony that got dismissed and that was already stressful enough for me, can't imagine handling these many charges at the same time.

How are things looking for him? any chance he could get deferred judgement or probation? I am also wondering how he got fugitive of justice case from the county that he has been living in for years. He never ran away anywhere and I have been close friend for 4 years, had no idea he was doing any cyber crimes or thefts and wondering how these popped up all suddenly when he was arrested for burglary in other county.

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u/Foreign-Kiwi-2233 — 16 days ago
▲ 12 r/Felons

Released and facing trials - 05/11 for fugitive of justice at district level court and 14th of the same week for burglary that he was arrested for and how they found out fugitive charge during arrest.

Recently divorced and moved and unemployed with partial custody - I am worried that he might be locked up between courts since he was fugitive

u/Foreign-Kiwi-2233 — 23 days ago
▲ 14 r/boulder

Curious if anyone knows updates regarding scrooge sul bar on the hill that recently has closed down. apparently 10 victims came forward and witnessed that owner of the bar harassed them and made videos of the victims. Is there an official suspect now and warrant out for the person? Was it just the owner that did all these or were there other employees who participated

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u/Foreign-Kiwi-2233 — 24 days ago
▲ 1 r/Felons

My friend was recently charged with 2nd degree burglary at empty residence through the window and I had no idea about his previous crime out of state (I know he went to Jail long time ago), I guess that warrant showed up, so he was also arrested for fugitive of justice and bonded out of jail for both cases with upcoming courts. I am not familiar with law, but did chatgpt and seems like it may be a heavy case since fugitive case is being handled at District court instead of county.

For Fugitive, it shows as arraignment for upcoming court under miscellaneous. He recently lost employment and also divorced, so he doesn't have any money. I have no idea what initial crime he ran away from the other state and how long it was ago. Would he most likely be put back into custody for awhile since he might need to be extradited? I want to be supportive but he has cut off everyone, and I am afraid he might make radical decision.

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u/Foreign-Kiwi-2233 — 24 days ago