I hate spoiled adults.
I, just like almost every other normal person, hate spoiled adults. As far as children are concerned, their behaviour can be changed but spoiled adults remain spoiled all their lives.
Someone who kind of inspired me to rant about this is my cousin. First of all, her mom, my aunt has come to live with us along with my cousin for sometime because obviously, she misses her mom (my grandma) and her brother (my dad).
Since these are different cities the environment is different. Basically my cousin agreed to stay with us only if we listen to her demands or wants.
Basically, she wanted us to entertain her somewhat because she misses her friends from her city,(me and my sister are postponing leaving for our maternal grandparents place because of her), max out all of the air conditioning in out house because she has done that at her place (FYI my grandmother with bone issues cannot handle that much of cold because it hurts, BUT she still adjusts for her granddaughter), and wants us to do everything around her schedule (sleeping late is okay but waking up after noon? We wake up at last at 10 am, the house-help arrives then and we need to go to work/school). She expects the house-help to comply with her schedule and not clean the room until after she is awake. The lady leaves and she doesn’t clean which means either my mom, her mon or my grandma has to clean up after her.
We don’t mind this because we obviously love her and want her to stay with us for at least a week.
Today, she woke up at 2.30 and came bursting out of the room saying that we were not listening to her demands and she wanted to leave ASAP. This was not even mild screaming, it was full blown, top of her lungs screaming. Most people in our neighbourhood definitely heard her. Now she is demanding to leave ASAP and still screaming. My aunt listens to everything she says because she is obviously tired of her behaviour and her fragile health cannot handle her daughter’s screaming. My aunt is looking for trains or buses or cabs that leave soon and crying.
My aunt is 48 and my cousin is 21 (an adult).