u/Foreign_Event_6778

I met a really nice woman and it seemed to be going well. What happened?

Im curious to know what women are actually looking for from guys on hinge? I understand everyone is different but I’ve had similar experiences happen a couple times now. I (29M) have been seeing a women (29F) for over a month been on multiple dates lasting 3-5 hours. She told me after each one she had a great time and would love to see me again. We did have good dates, chat flowed easily and laughed a lot and had similar interests and values. She genuinely seemed really into me. She’d message often suggesting next date ideas, complimenting me on my looks and clothes etc. she showed a genuine interest in me and my life. Then out of nowhere I get a message saying your such a lovely guy but just don’t see you in a romantic way. I mean i appreciate the honesty but I’m left thinking what just happened haha. Is this just a common thing people are experiencing on hinge? Seems to be going really well then out of nowhere she’s not interested. I can’t tell if I’m going about things wrong or if it’s just part of the dating game now? I fully get im not going to be a good match for everybody and that’s fine but it’s just confusing when someone shows a lot of interest then is all of sudden not interested. And advice appreciated.

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u/Foreign_Event_6778 — 5 days ago