Okay, so my aadhar card photo and biometrics are about 10 years old, do i need to update the biometrics or will the existing ones be okay? Because it may take some time to get updated (my sister’s biometric update was stuck on their end for 2 months)
Is anyone in the same boat as me, what are you doing ?
My aadhar photo and biometrics are 10 years old, do i need to update? Also aadhar updating the aadhar sometime takes weeks if not days…does anyone have any suggestions?
Since we’re all talking about roommates, figured I’ll talk about my deeply traumatic experience
Of sharing a room with a girl in my mbbs, changing rooms was not an option as there were not enough hostel rooms to accomodate, so i was stuck with her for years. She traumatised me so much that i became spiritual and started to think that i was cleansing my past karma by enduring to live with her.
My roommate was a huge narcissist who used to gaslight everyone into thinking that what she was actually doing to me, i was doing to her:
She used to keep the lights of the room on till 4am everyday, I couldn’t sleep because of that, i didn’t even ask her to use a table lamp, just asked her to use the lights on her side of the ceiling still she kept the main lights on.
She used to get tutored from her boyfriend and mother during exam months late into night on a group conference call till 3-4 am, i couldnt sleep because of that as well, when i requested her to not be on call in the room after 1am she created a huge scene out of it. This genuinely fucked up with my mental peace so so much because I was a morning person and I couldnt sleep because of her.
I used to cry into my pillow.
Kept the bathroom door ajar always, kept the exhaust fan always on which made very loud sound as background noise so that she could talk to her boyfriend or mother all night.
Convinced me to cook together but i was always the one bringing the groceries, for eg i would bring butter atleast thrice before she ever brought butter and other groceries. If i didnt bring neither did she, if i brought she gladly used mine.
Used to ask me for markings and pyqs, never shared her markings with me.
I got into a relationship early on (she did too) but she stopped talking to me 2 days after i told her about it for no reason, she started talking back again when i got a gold medal in one of the proffs out of the blue.
Used to act innocent around classmates with that holier than thou persona and gossiped about everyone behind each other’s back.
Was hugely insecure of my other friends when i started to befriend other people, tried to cut me off with my other friends, once I decided to cook lunch with one of my friends (i was the one bringing all the ration in the room anyways, so i went to my friend’s room and cooked with her) my roommate created a huge scene out of it, i was so overwhelmed that i stopped talking to my friend for 3-4 months because of that.
She had extreme anger issues as well, she would literally shout, curse like a hellcat in front of me on calls, on her boyfriend if he ever refused to tutor her.
Told me that she used to beat her housemaids up back in the day proudly, it was very triggering for me honestly.
And on top of that i was the one who always asked the hostel maids to clean the room, she never bothered to get the room cleaned, once i was so tired of her shit that i didnt ask the housemaids, the room didnt get cleaned up for 2 months because of that- she went around and told all the classmates about how unhygienic I was, mind you she showered every 10 days during winters and i showered daily.
There was ac in our room she switched it on/off always according to herself, even though both of us paid for the electricity bill, whenever i did a favour for her she would act nice, and the environment in the room would be breathable for a few days, when she had nothing to take from me she would make living in the same room hell
I was limited to my bed and study table in the room she took up all the space and kept her shoebag, extra almirahs etc, even started to push her bed in my space of the room to take up the other side
It was just deeply deeply distressful living with her, there was so much more gaslighting, isolating, blame gaming that she did
Unfortunately changing rooms was not an option in our campus.
Even typing everything out is making my hands shake thats how deeply she traumatised me.
I eventually got to change rooms somewhere during the internship and my new roommate was an angel, that I couldn’t believe living with someone could be so so so unproblematic and fun.
But at the end she had absolutely noone who talked to her at the end of our internship, none of the classmates even her boyfriend broke up with her, she was extremely isolated by the end of it.
And all the people she had bouthmouthed me to, ended up being on good terms with me at last.
What are your roommate from hell stories?
Im a scorpio venus and he is a scorpio mars
Im a leo mars and he is a leo venus
Both our plutos are in scorpio
Both our saturns are in aries
Can anyone guide me about this conjunction and what does it mean?
He is a aquarius ascendant
And i am a gemini ascendant
Also his sun and moon are also leo
My sun is in scorpio and my moon is taurus
He loves to be adored and i love to adore him, he follows me around like a lovesick puppy, but then there is this mental wall between us which drives me so mad, i feel like he really cant get who i am as a person sometimes &we have a lot of fights especially when we are away from each other but just end up solving them by having sex when we meet, its like going around in a loop and its driving me crazy.
Could you give any insights about this relationship?
Hey everyone I’m in a bad reading slump and I’m looking for some intense, angsty Historical Romance recommendations. To give you an idea of my taste, my favorites include Devil in Winter by Lisa Kleypas, The Highwayman by Kerrigan Byrne, Lord of Scoundrels by Loretta Chase, marrying winterborne by lisa kleypas and Jane Eyre by Charlotte Brontë.
What i want :
Mmc is so emotionally devastated by the fmc that he literally feels that he can’t breathe without her.
Heartbreaking or angry confessions of love (the best).
Angst.
Kissing her almost makes him cry, even better if he actually weeps or gets overwhelmed or breatheless because of her.
More angst.
Sweet fmcs and protective mmcs.
Mmc who would crawl through hell for her.
Good prose
I want the MCs to struggle with their feelings for each other and struggle to be together.
HEA
What I don’t like:
Ow drama, unnecessary third act breakup,
miscommunication trope(its fine if they are hiding their feelings for each other but I am not a fan of stupid misunderstandings that can be solved with minor communication)