
Officially giving up
I recently moved to an area with a park close by with Eastern Bluebird boxes along the trails. I was so excited when they started showing up at my feeder for mealworms!
Unfortunately, the area is also home to house sparrows like most other places I’ve lived. There’s a nest in our neighbors bushes and I’m not close enough to say anything to them about it. I don’t want to come off a certain way after I’ve just moved in. Well since these sparrows found the feeder, they’ve eaten most of the mealworms I put out among other things.
The more I read about them taking over nest boxes, the less I want to keep the feeders stocked. I’ve looked into trapping but I don’t have the heart to kill even an invasive species. I’ve come to the conclusion that taking the feeders down outside of the thistle feeder for the goldfinches is the best option for my conscience.
The reason I’m posting this is just to share my experience and my heartbreak of not seeing the bluebirds on a daily basis. The first day he flew over to the yard and the feeder was gone was just an awful feeling to be honest. If anyone else is dealing with these same feelings, just know you are not alone out there.
EDIT: I wasn’t expecting all the comments and empathy but it does mean a lot. It’s comforting knowing there’s a community of people out there that struggle with some aspects of this hobby. Thanks to all of you for your support and kindness.