u/Formal-Fox-7875

Husband keeps (jokingly) hitting me and now I can't tell if this is considered normal or not.

I (F 30) have been married to my husband (M 33) for five years now. From the beginning he's smacked me on my back, forehead, leg, etc. when he walks past me or sometimes hits and then says like 'stop slouching' or like today he hits my leg when Im lying down and asks 'where's the cookies?'.
I have asked him to stop hitting me COUNTLESS times because he is stronger than I am and it genuinely hurts sometimes.
He has been doing it for five years so I cannot tell id this is normal or no big deal. But today I noticed that I flinch when he walks by sometimes so I decided to ask Reddit lol.
Im not sure what to do.

tl;dr Husband keeps (playfully) hitting me even after I asked him to stop.

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u/Formal-Fox-7875 — 1 day ago