u/Formal-Passenger2313

Long story short, I went out to the movies with my friends. I chose this movie and I've seen it twice. I only went because I wanted to experience the movie again with that specific friend and I don't mind watching it a third. Just to preface I don't care if she didn't like the movie some times that is not what people are into. However, when we watch the movie she constantly makes remarks like "when is this going to get good?" being very loud and going on her phone and showing me memes on instagram and then repeatedly saying the movie is boring. I couldn't take it anymore so I got up and left half way through. Didn't say bye I simply just left not a word. She then texted me after calling me a bunch and she says "Hey to be super real, what you did felt mean. Leaving like that and then not responding really hurt. I care about you so if something’s going on or I did something, I’d rather you just say it than handle it like that." Was what I did mean? Am I really the a-hole?

*edited* I thought I was running out of characters so i summarized a lot.
I said in the middle of the movie "im sorry you're not liking the movie" she then proceeds to be very loud then she says "even this video is more entertaining than this" I then told her "you should put your phone away this part is good because it brings everything together." she stays quiet and then goes back on her phone. She would also randomly rock the seat so much and start bursting out in laughter with my other friends because it seemed like the seat was gonna come off since they were are all connected. I also express to her "I really liked this movie and I'm really excited to watch it with you!" right before we entered the theater only to say and do all of that...I am 25 she is 26 and my other friends are 28 and 27.... so yeah we are all adults.

*EDIT* OK last thing to add. This is not her first offense. I felt more betrayed that she acted like this again and I made sure WEEKS prior that this was a movie she might like. so NO i did not pick movie she could potentially dislike I even let her watch the trailer. Everyone keeps making assumptions that I intentionally picked a movie she wouldn't like and forced her to watch it.

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u/Formal-Passenger2313 — 22 days ago