Am I(18M) overthinking this situation with my girlfriend(18f) and another guy DMing her?
I’m 18M and my girlfriend is 18F. We were on FaceTime and she was showing me stuff in her camera roll when she came across a screenshot and said something like “omg look at this, this is so funny.” It was a screenshot of a guy DMing her from a couple days ago.
The guy wasn’t just vaguely flirting or being friendly either. He pretty directly revealed his intentions and made it obvious he was interested in her in a way that really couldn’t be misinterpreted. My girlfriend wasn’t flirting back from what I saw, but she also didn’t immediately shut the conversation down once it became clear why he messaged her.
I’ve had bad experiences with situations like this in a previous relationship pretty recently, so I know I might be viewing this through a biased lens and assuming the worst possible outcome. But seeing that conversation still bothered me, especially because she still follows the guy too.
I genuinely don’t know if this is something worth bringing up or if I’m making a bigger deal out of it than it is. I also don’t want to sound jealous, controlling, or insecure
TL;DR girlfriend gets dmed, bad past experiance, how to respond?