AIO / ex bf still involved.
my ex still wants to be involved in my daughters life even though he’s the one that ended things between us… wanting to go out to eat and willing to take her out to get ice cream….
A month after he broke up with me he reached out drunk and made plans to hang out with my daughter I didn’t take him seriously since he was drunk but he did end up following through with the plans.
Remember he mad this plan for my daughter but when we met up he brought up what happened between us…
A day after he reached out again asking for my daughter & then kept calling the whole week and even made more plans with all of us together… he then got mad over something and blamed me for it (he was drunk) and then said we would never get back together…. I thought that’s where this was headed….
Anyways I asked him straight up if we would be getting back together and he back tracked and said no that “only god knows, I can say I don’t want anything right now but only god decides” and then a few days later went off on me bc I had a whole breakdown about the situation….
This time I have stopped reaching out and now he is reaching out more consistently.
Today I told him that it wasn’t easy for me and I didn’t know how to explain to my daughter that I can’t just call him or expect him to make plans like going out to eat of getting ice cream to which he responded “of course we’re going to go out to eat and grab some ice cream, who said that we’re not?”
I’m confused idk what to do or think anymore.
He knows I come attached to my daughter.
Mind you she isn’t his biological daughter…