u/Formal_Raccoon2581

To begin with, I am the eldest daughter with a sister that is 3 years younger than me and parents that have been married for 30 years. I just recently moved back home 🫠 because life was lifing but truly do not want to be here long. My sister only moved out for a year and basically has been at home the whole time. She has an online jewelry business so she works from home. There is a room we call the bonus room that is basically attached to what is now her room that she uses as office space. Yes it is also a junk room but the room is big enough for the junk and her office and oh yea her cat too. While I was not living at the house they pretty much were beginning to turn my room into a junk room too (my mom and sis). I’m moving back so of course I need MY space right. But of course hardly anything of their shit was taken out of my room with full awareness that I am MOVING BACK not just spending the night. I’m kinda tired of typing this so I’m just going to try to wrap it up. Her business stuff is in drawers, on top of the night stand, in the closet, under the bed and the same for my mom’s miscellaneous stuff too. So there even has been 4 necklaces that my sister made that were just sitting on top of the dresser for probably TWO YEARS now. Never moved never bothered. I would always say I like the necklaces. I’ll even purchase them from you but she would never give me a price. So they just stayed sitting in the same spot. So I decided to wear one of them the other day because why not. It’s jewelry that’s meant to be worn not collect dust. So now my sis realizes that she is sitting on waaayyy to much inventory. Her stuff was in my room (which she still thought it would be in there like I didn’t tell her to move it out. Like I wouldn’t like to at least have a corner of the house to myself after having my own place), her stuff is in the walkway, it’s in the office room. Everywhere! So she’s deciding to do a sale to focus on all the extra shit she has laying around. She recognizes that I wore the necklace (that has been sitting in MY room for 2years) and now she’s saying she needs it or needs to retrieve those necklaces from my room so she can sell them amongst others that she believes she might have left in there. But that last part was said with some snootiness. And I’m like for one that necklace has been sitting in the same spot for two years. And two you are well aware of your shit being in my room but can’t think beyond your own shit to realize that I can’t even get 4 walls a corner of the house all to myself. Can’t even think about how going from to 2bd townhouse to one little room and it STILL has your shit in there and you want a necklace back that has been in the same spot for 2 years. Ultimately I get no respect in this house and their brains truly cannot even see how they’re in the wrong. And on top of that I genuinely support and like her jewelry and it was finally worn and she wants to take it back to now try to sell to someone else.