u/Former-Bumblebee-901

Adult child

Okay, so I live in a house with 5 people. It's not a spacious house, but its livable. Earlier today, the younger sister of the fiance of the owner threw a temper tantrum. She's 19, and works part time. She works 12 hour days, which I get can be hard, but today she threw a fit because she was asked to move her car. She jumped at the owner and his fiance to try and threaten them. The owners of the house were nice enough to let her boyfriend move in all the way from Cali. They get upset at me because I dont pay as much as they do, but they have two people and a dog living in one room. She doesn't clean, she doesn't cook, she refuses to clean up her dog poop, and when asked about it, instead of trying to do better she's always making excuses. Well today she had the owner crying after she picked up a baby gate and slammed it into the ground, and got into her face, to which she replied "what, u wanna hit me?" And stood her ground. Now, I help out. Im always doing anything the owners ask me to do, going around doing yard work, helping with the chores around the house when I have a day off of work. She just sits in her room, she refuses to let her dog play with the other dogs in the house, and he's a husky. One of the most energetic breeds. He's stuck, cooped up in a bedroom all day. Now her boyfriend babies her, and backs her up, even tho I know he knows she's wrong. He has a lot riding on this. Now the owners said she has until August to get out, but I have a feeling their going to change their minds like they always do. Anyways, its pretty toxic, and they're pretty toxic. The owners of the house can't be themselves in the house with them around. It's getting to the point now where if they ask something of her and her boyfriend, she's making sure im doing the same thing. All up in my business, and making sure I get in trouble for her wrong doings. How do yall deal with an adult toddler constantly making excuses and not picking up their slack of the house work, chores etc?

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u/Former-Bumblebee-901 — 7 days ago