I like this girl I met online and it's not what I signed up for
Everyone I know who gave online dating a try ended up with a hookup story or nothing at all but when I created my own profile I kinda knew what to expect from it. This was never going to be something real and that wasnt my intention going in.
We matched about a month ago with both of us in New England. She's 23 and I'm 25. Conversations started off like any other, casual and chill but somehow it wouldn't stop. Not only the convo kept going but it was fast paced aswell, like one message and you got the reply right away. I was playing buffalo win on jackpot daily at night when she messaged me and found myself engaged in a conversation for over 3 hours and it felt natural not forced.
Like she can remember the things I said which in my online dating experience it doesnt happen as often. She'll bring small stuff up that even I barely remember some times lol. I've never experienced that before with this. I always had the idea that the online dating thing its gonna be used by me just for hookups and thats it because I had no intention going the extra mile.
I haven't told my friends yet because I already know what they would say. I dont know if I'm just overthinking this but I dont wanna have high expectations and be disappointed afterwards.
If it continues like this I would like to meet her in real life, she seems sweet and genuine. I like that.