u/Formetoknow123

I've been married 8 years. I love my hubby but am getting bored. He isn't getting hints even when I tell him some things are boring. Now I'm daydreaming about other men. I don't think I'll do anything, but even daydreaming is bad as I'm married and so is the other person (not sure if they are happily married or their status in the marriage). It's bad that I've prayed to stop all this, and daydream seconds after praying for it to end (aka am i praying to stop thinking like this because i know i need to and not because i want to). Sometimes I'll make excuses such as keeping the daydreaming "g" rates. Or secretly thinking that if I fall I'll come back stronger and have a task relationship with God, since I've wrestled with my relationship for over a decade, never knowing if I'm truly saved. Kinda hoping I do fall, then God calls me back. But I know all that is my flesh that is thinking these thoughts and wanting this. I need it to end and to be the faithful wife even in my mind but if I think these things then I'm not faithful to God and therefore not faithful to my spouse. Some days are better than others. I just rant prayer and no judgments. Thanks and God bless.

I have a 5 year old son, level 2 on the spectrum. He's been going to same clinic for 3 years. But now i wonder if ABA is right for him, or if we need a new center (and that's h-e- double hockey sticks to find a good center that takes our insurance). We had to get my son a helmet because his head banging was getting out of control at the center. Although TBH he does head bang at his prek and at home, but not as much as during ABA.

Another concerning factor is him pulling down his pants or putting his hands inside his pants. We brought suspenders to the clinic but now they just want us to bring in overalls. I already bought two pairs, but i don't think I need to keep buying them. I could be wrong and let me know if I am wrong but I think my son's BCBA should be looking into the reasons for my son pulling down pants and sticking his hands down there and not just telling us to bring overalls so that he'll be unable to perform those actions. He does it occasionally at home but not at prek. And with him limited verbal skills we can't ask him why he is doing those actions. So shouldn't our BCBA look for other causes in addition to my son just seeking attention and start looking for ways to get my son to stop this behavior and not just cover up the underlying cause by putting him in overalls? My hubby and I will happily work with the BCBA to put an end to this behavior. Anything I may be missing?

Do you think it may be that ABA is no longer a good fit fit to my son's behavior being remarkably worse when he's at the clinic or that maybe we should just switch clinics if we can even find one? If we leave ABA then he'll just be in school for the full day (minus summer) and we'll have to find a new place for OT (who is not even working on his misbehaviors) and for ST.

Thanks!

I've been playing since harry potter and have never won a new set of dice. Lately I haven't been getting many railroads to help out. Would be chances of winning the dice on peg-e increase if I pay for tokens? I'm still like 12k points away and it ends tomorrow. We all know the game is rigged, so we'll my odds increase if I buy the maximum of 120 tokens or not bother? Thanks!