Coworker🙃
Want to preface this by saying I know you should “never dip your pen in company ink” but its too late for that. I have a coworker and we have been flirting with loads of tension for years. He’s a very reserved guy, somewhat insecure about himself, and about 10 years older than me. Idk why but we were texting one day, both having a couple of drinks and out of no where he asked me to come over. I told him if he still wanted me to when he was sober I would because I didnt want him to regret anything. Morning rolls around he texts me and boom we hook up. After the hook up we began consistently texting until it sort of dropped off. Just last week he started messaging me asking if I remember certain details (that I wont be disclosing) about our hookup. I told him of course I remember and I was shocked he did too. I was convinced he regretted it and made a mistake. So we have been very sexually charged since then. He started messaging me at work while we are together and I don’t know what to do with this tension honestly. Hes always around me, always teases me, looking at me. I just want us to be clear on what we are doing. Ive been trying to remain normal and not make it obvious we have seen each other naked lol. But he says Im shy and I pretend I don’t know him. Idk whats going on guys or what is going to transpire from this but its exhausting.