u/Forsaken_Ad4041

I'm a very aggressive female net player and will poach anything that comes my way. I recently started playing a few leagues and I've noticed the 3.0 women will just lob back to my partner as soon as they figure out I'm good at the net. Occasionally I can put away a winner if they make a mistake but it puts a lot of pressure on my partner and we end up losing. I don't have the same issue when I play mixed or with a friendly group of 3.5+ players. They'll rip it right at me and see if I can react fast enough lol. How do I counteract the lobbers? Do I suck it up and play 2 back?