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I met peter online on kuknalim and I assumed that we both didn’t know each other’s identity in the beginning. It was so long ago not sure about the details but I do know that I did not reach out to him first. He stole my number from my cousin’s phone and wrote to me first. From what I always assumed we both had no issue with him being my brother’s friend. In fact, even my brother though initially apprehensive supported the relationship till reports of him being violent emerged.

He kept hidden from me for months of only phone texting and calls that he was already pursuing a relationship with someone else. When he finally told me, I tried ending it and that’s when he told me, he had left her for me. I clearly remember stating that he should be single for some time to figure out his goals but he insisted that he broke up for me and that I couldn’t leave him.

The first time we were sexually intimate also he forced me to by stating that he was already sexually active and if I didn’t give it to him, he would find it somewhere else. I had never been in a sexual relationship before and wasn’t keen on beginning one so soon.

Once the sexual relationship started, I started having attachment issues and also had pressure from my ex to start funding his lifestyle as he claimed his family didn’t provide him enough and his ex was sending him money every month.

The first time he got violent was a slap and things got progressively worse from there on. Slowly the demands for money and the violence based on my sexuality and moral conscience started, saying that his ex was sending him money, so I should now help him cos he broke up for me. When we were in a relationship Peter was unemployed and displayed no ambition and I was the one with a career and money coming in from home also as I was funding him too. He later got a job but was only being paid 4k and I was even buying him his clothes to wear.

So many incidents and the saga continued of me trying to leave him. He even moved 5 mins from my college to prevent me from distancing myself from him. I felt trapped for the entire time we were together and was seeking a clean break from him for years. I was being blackmailed both directly and emotionally the entire time. It’s when he started talking about marriage in late 2010 that I knew I had to free myself. He even started implying that my father should help him find a govt job in Nagaland as a marriage gift.

The plaintiff had started a smear campaign in fact even before we ended things, he was using that to control and force me to remain with him. I felt cornered but just praying he gets bored of me and moves on; I would even use small excuses to try and break up but to no avail. Finally, when he agreed to let me go, I thought maybe he would understand how kind I had been with him and how much I was willing to forgive and forget. He wrote to me when he got a job at Bloombury that I should consider marrying him cos now he would be more financially independent. That same year I disabled receiving messages from him when he wished me on birthday. I was exceptionally relieved when the plaintiff finally let us end amicably. Only after some time had passed did I become aware of the entirely false narrative being given to family and friends did I realise the smear campaign the plaintiff had been working on the entire time. Just a little twist on every version of the truth, a garnishing there and the plaintiff had prepared a whole narrative of how he was the victim at my hands while I had chosen silence.

It was such a traumatic experience for me that tbh my own family is only now finding out about the full extent of my relationship with the plaintiff. My friends too would hear snippet sometimes when I just couldn’t keep in anymore and have struggled for years to come to terms with my own life following my experience from late 2006 - early 2011

I went to the extent of not talking to the plaintiff’s sister as I would earlier in the relationship as she would openly support me too and I felt that he needed his own support system in place. Hence I believe that his own sister also doesn’t know the extent of abuse I suffered at his hands though she lived with him.

I met peter online on kuknalim and I assumed that we both didn’t know each other’s identity in the beginning. It was so long ago not sure about the details but I do know that I did not reach out to him first. He stole my number from my cousin’s phone and wrote to me first. From what I always assumed we both had no issue with him being my brother’s friend. In fact, even my brother though initially apprehensive supported the relationship till reports of him being violent emerged.

He kept hidden from me for months of only phone texting and calls that he was already pursuing a relationship with someone else. When he finally told me, I tried ending it and that’s when he told me, he had left her for me. I clearly remember stating that he should be single for some time to figure out his goals but he insisted that he broke up for me and that I couldn’t leave him.

The first time we were sexually intimate also he forced me to by stating that he was already sexually active and if I didn’t give it to him, he would find it somewhere else. I had never been in a sexual relationship before and wasn’t keen on beginning one so soon.

Once the sexual relationship started, I started having attachment issues and also had pressure from my ex to start funding his lifestyle as he claimed his family didn’t provide him enough and his ex was sending him money every month.

The first time he got violent was a slap and things got progressively worse from there on. Slowly the demands for money and the violence based on my sexuality and moral conscience started, saying that his ex was sending him money, so I should now help him cos he broke up for me. When we were in a relationship Peter was unemployed and displayed no ambition and I was the one with a career and money coming in from home also as I was funding him too. He later got a job but was only being paid 4k and I was even buying him his clothes to wear.

So many incidents and the saga continued of me trying to leave him. He even moved 5 mins from my college to prevent me from distancing myself from him. I felt trapped for the entire time we were together and was seeking a clean break from him for years. I was being blackmailed both directly and emotionally the entire time. It’s when he started talking about marriage in late 2010 that I knew I had to free myself. He even started implying that my father should help him find a govt job in Nagaland as a marriage gift.

The plaintiff had started a smear campaign in fact even before we ended things, he was using that to control and force me to remain with him. I felt cornered but just praying he gets bored of me and moves on; I would even use small excuses to try and break up but to no avail. Finally, when he agreed to let me go, I thought maybe he would understand how kind I had been with him and how much I was willing to forgive and forget. He wrote to me when he got a job at Bloombury that I should consider marrying him cos now he would be more financially independent. That same year I disabled receiving messages from him when he wished me on birthday. ***A lot of abuse and violence and cohesive behavior has purposely been left out as the narrative would become too long.

A very evil man has been spreading lies about me and defaming me for over 15 years!! I have gone through a lot. A simple prayer request that truth wins over lies 🙏 and that Evil shall fall.

Really want to THANK This subReddit for helping me finally speak up about a problem I had been facing for years and years! Today I read exactly what a certain someone says behind my back to the world and it truly gave me closure and relief!! I cried a lot but they were tears of breaking free from my chains! Hallelujah 😄👍🏽 BEST DECISION OF MY LIFE WAS TO NOT MARRY PETER MODOVI MODOLI!! Not one day of regret in these past 15 years! 🥳🥳🥳🥳

I’ve been having a lot of issues with this sub but when I deleted my most recent post about my ex that hurt the most cos not one lady had come forward to even enquire.

It’s 2026 and here I am! A woman who forgave her ex for countless shitty and downright criminal behaviour. And still walked away from the relationship thinking we had amicably parted. Yet when months down the line once he had moved on when I started hearing how he says I’m a horrible human being and he only was with me for the sex. Leaving such a scar in my life that even after 10 years when I dated the next guy, the tag hadn’t left me. Even job opportunities are being targeted cos I am so horrible apparently. What is a human being supposed to even do this society! When I speak up I am bad when I don’t I’m bad. Where do I go with myself?

Associate VP marketing Peter Modoli’s ex claims that he ruined her life and left her mental health in shambles for 15 years by starting a campaign of lies against her for not wanting to marry him. Already booked with an FIR by the woman he dated after her. Penguin India is going to face some tough questions for harbouring and promoting a known criminal.

Edit - her claims include Rape, Domestic Violence, Manipulation, Coercive Behaviour and Gas lighting. She claims she was even locked in his home for over a week once when she wanted to leave him. Other details are too sensitive to be shared on a public forum.

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