Moving in with my partner, need help!!
Hi guys, I F(24) and my boyfriend (23) we are moving in together after a four year old relationship, I always wanted to move in with him but now when we actually are moving in together I am scared. Not because we don’t love each other but because he’s lied to me about his smoking in the past and taken me for granted in certain incidences. He caters to his needs first before our relationship and this has troubled me a lot. On the contrary he is extremely nice, is a feminist and handles me well and loves me. I am just concerned about what if living together makes him take me for granted just because I am always going to be around, more than that I am concerned about my exit strategy. It will be much more difficult for me to leave this guy if I had to share a space with him. Is there any tip to maintain boundary or still be emotionally independent while being in this setting?