My small tribute to Afghan culture
Hey everyone. I wanted to share a personal project that I just wrapped up, and I really hope this comes across with the respect it's meant to have.
I started this thing where I learn about a different culture each month, going in alphabetical order. Afghanistan was first on the list, so that's where I began. I honestly thought I'd do one month and move on. But the culture, the history, the food... it just grabbed me. I ended up spending three whole months trying to soak it all in.
Last night, I finally set up this outdoor dinner for my family. I made Bolani, Borani Banjan, saffron rice, kofta, shir chai, and shir milk rice. I also made Kabuli Pulao for a smaller dinner a few weeks ago, and I loved it.
Beyond cooking, I read all of Khaled Hosseini's books, and I actually passed them along to three family members so they could experience the stories too. And today, to officially close this chapter, I'm taking a kite out to fly. It just feels right.
I want to be clear. I am not Afghan, and I am not claiming to be an expert. I am just someone who started with a letter in the alphabet and ended up genuinely inspired by your culture. My cooking is just my best attempt at home, and I know it doesn't compare to the real thing, but I made it with a lot of respect.
My whole goal was just to share a little of what I learned with my family, so 10 of us know more today than we did yesterday.
I really hope this doesn't come across as offensive or disrespectful. If I said or did anything that feels off, please call me out. I just wanted to honor a culture that made me stop in my tracks. Thank you for sharing such a beautiful heritage with the world.
If anyone wants to talk about the food, the books, or the kite, I am all ears.
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UPDATE: Since so many of you were sweet enough to follow along, I wanted to share how I ended it. Yesterday I flew a kite for the very first time, and I absolutely enjoyed every moment like a little kid. It felt like the right way to close this beautiful journey. Thank you all for being so welcoming. 🪁❤️