Breakup
This is never the post I wanted to be posting but I feel so lost right now and I don’t know what to do. I’m 22 and me and my girlfriend of 4 years broke up about a month ago. I was holding out hope that everything would fix it, but I’ve just found out she was messaging other guys 2 weeks after.
She went through everything with me, by my side the whole time. She was there when I was rushed to get the emergency surgery, she was there when I needed the revision. She’s genuinely the love of my life and I can’t thank her enough, even after what’s happened
I’m on the reversal waiting list and I really want it now, because I want to be able to put this all behind me. If something goes wrong and I need to keep the bag, I feel like I’ll never find love again or someone who will accept me for what I have.
For people with permanent stomas, or people who found partners while having a stoma, how did you manage? How did you break it to them? I fear I’ll never find someone ever again with this