We can’t find a good time for sex. Are we just lazy?
My husband and I have one kiddo who’s nearly 11. We live in a teeny tiny 2 bed 1 bath house. Her bedroom door is ~3 feet directly across from our bedroom door. That alone makes sex sketchy enough lol.
My husband works in the trades outside in the heat. When he comes home he’s exhausted. Sun-Thurs we all go to bed between 8-9pm. Neither of us want sex during the work week bc we’re so tired. Our alarms start going off at 5am. Long days. Rinse and repeat.
Friday nights are tough because our kid wants to stay up late FaceTiming and gaming with her friends. We usually settle on 11pm on the weekends for her bedtime. Problem is by 11pm on a Friday we’re already sleepy af from working all day. Basically Saturdays are the only day we’re not too tired and stuck waiting for our daughter to fall asleep.
There’s no sneaking around either. We can’t use the bathroom for sex since we only have one. The neighbor’s kid’s bedroom window looks right into our driveway so we can’t fuck in the car. The garage is in our backyard and more like a shed. It’s crusty and full of scrap metal/things from husband’s job.
WHERE AND WHEN ARE WE SUPPOSED HAVE SEX WHEN OUR HOUSE IS TINY AND WE’RE ALWAYS TIRED. Please help us lol. Are we just not putting in enough effort and creativity ? 😭😅