Alienated adult child is now trying to turn our younger child against us
I’m the wife of an alienated dad. He has two adult daughters with his narcissistic ex-wife. The older daughter has blocked me entirely, and while she hasn’t blocked her dad yet, the only response she’ll give him to texts now is liking or disliking messages. The younger is, thankfully, still on good, if a bit strained, speaking terms and seems to be only mildly alienated (hopefully it won’t get any worse). Both of them want to continue having contact with our younger kids, but the older daughter has started venting her issues about me and my husband with my oldest kid (15m). I hope I’m being paranoid, but I’m really worried about her “corrupting” him against us, and our other kids, too. I’ve tried to find anything about this online for advice, but all I’ve found so far is a lawyer (our former lawyer, incidentally) mentioning it briefly in an interview. Has anyone else experienced this?