u/Frenchrosexx

Dr Mahnoor Nasir

This needs to be talked about. I am 99% sure everyone is aware of Dr Mahnoor Nasir, a doctor in Quetta who has become a victim of an acid attack. A women has been subjected to one of the most extreme form of violence and still the gender wars don't stop. This is not the time to become defensive or chant "HAR MARD AISA NAI HAI HAR MARD AISA NAI HAI", nahi hai to theek hai nai hai. I've said this in the comments of another post on r/pakistan, that if you are presented with a tray of 50 apples with an uncertain amount of poisonous apples within them, would you take the risk of eating one? Absolutely not, there would be no risk of putting yourself in danger. Then why are women declared wrong when they are afraid? When they don't trust every man? It is the utmost priority to care and pray for the innocent victim and ensure that the women in this country feel safe enough to step out of their houses without worrying how they might make it alive. And this can only be done if every single person (not men but other women also) look within themselves and correct themselves. Wo kesa mwashra hoa jahan population mein sy adhi, apny gharon sy niklny mein darti ho? Balkay ab to gharon mein bhi mehfooz nai hai (referencing to the 60 year old man who murdered his wife when she refused intimacy which was her RIGHT to refuse and he showed no regret or remorse afterwards either). Is this the society we're making? Kya ye hai hmara Pakistan? Wo mulk, wo mwashra kabhi kamyaab nai ho skta jahan apny sy kamzoron ki izzat na ki jaye. Mard to muhaffiz hota hai na? Jis duniya ky muhaffiz hi zaalim ban jayein, wahan jeena kesay mumkin hai?

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u/Frenchrosexx — 3 days ago

Advice on new bhabhi

Im 18F and i have an older sister and a brother. Mu sister is already married and my brother is getting married soon so my bhabhi will be entering our family InshaAllah. From experienced folks, what advice would you give, to help me create a welcoming and loving environment for her. I truely want her and my brother's happiness and peace inside the house.

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u/Frenchrosexx — 9 days ago

What should I dooo??

Ok so this will be a very long post

Im a Pakistani teen (18F), and I'm in a dilemma. So bringing it back to August 2024. There is a family friend of ours on my mother's side that live two hours away in a city where the rest of my mother's side is. They have a son (20F currently), who I used to see when i visited which was not a lot. He is an extremely respectful and sweet guy so I've always thought good of him and respected him. But other than that, there was nothing really between us except the fact that we were good friends in our childhood. We grew up and hence grew apart. Now years later, he came to my city to study, alone in 2024. My parents having a soft spot always asked him to join us at dinner, to the point that my dad would (fondly) scold him if he missed one. This started a trend of him joining us at dinners. At the start, it wasn't much, I kept quiet at dinners and we didn't interact much. Over time i noticed a few hints but I, thinking i was delusional, let it go. In October 2024, I realized i had feelings for him and he, like before, kept giving hints like he reciprocated. There came a time when we both knew that each liked the other. It was an AMAZING time to the point that everyone around me guaranteed that he 100% has fallen for me. He consoled me on a family funeral on my dad's side, he always took care of my moods, and we shared a very close bond. I can never forget how his eyes looked at me when i entered a room, the respect, the shine in them UGH🤌. Everything was going perfect...til it wasn't. In September 2025, he told us that he was moving to another city very very far away from mine. And it felt like my perfect story had crashed. He moved shortly after and on his last meeting, he again, handled my shock and even said he would return as soon as he could. Side information that we're both muslims and none of us do dating or texting, so the only interactions we had were irl and infront of our families (which i respected a lot that he never hid his feelings). Its now been 9 months, with zero contact and i still can't forget him. I did so many istikhara and begged Allah to just erase him but whenever i get close to moving on a bit, he shows up in my dreams. I wish i got closure and i wish i could talk to him about it but im too nervous and its too late to now bring it up when i didn't do so in the last 9 months. What do i DO?

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u/Frenchrosexx — 10 days ago