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Unable to move from uni friend

There is this one guy from my uni. I was just a friend of him in first semester and lowkey hated him in beginning. But soon things happened and then through mutual friends we became very good friends. I got to know a lot about him. He was so intellectually good and was a gentleman. My perspective about him changed. He changed me also. I became intellectually aware about many things. I was lying to myself for 3-4 months that i am not in love with him but I proved myself wrong when one day just for him I stayed in uni to spend time with him. I came home and was devastated because this was the first time i was in love. I cried and cried and cried because it’s very complicated. ( i know you guys will say what bullshit is this) i dont wanna be in a relationship at all and mostly he is out of my league. I am pretty decent and little bit attractive but he is way too beautiful. I do have commitment issues. I dont wanna end up with anyone even if i want it’s impossible that i will tell him anything and even if it tell him anything its impossible he will say yes. Now month of june and july was hell for me. Because of him and my exams i went through serious depression. But by the end of july and aug I thought i moved on from him. However, i just got to know he left uni to join issb. Today was another day i cried for him and i hope it’s last.
Throwback to January or feb I texted my friend in a jokingly way and said i want a one sided love story which will make me miserable and i think here it is. I dont think so i will ever be able to see him ever again.

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u/Ok_Fig4480 — 2 days ago

Do we agree on this chat..?

We (the new Gen Pakistanis) disagree on so many things, i thought maybe this is the only topic everyone must agree that its pretty weird and awkward to go from “behen to begum” towards your cousin….

We should all collectively save our future children from stunted growth (look it up on google)

Say no to cousin marriage. Have some rizz and marry someone outside of your khandaan

Thank you for your attention to this matter

D.j nightcompetitive

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u/NightCompetitive26 — 2 days ago

HAIR COLOUR HELP!!

I have dark brown (almost black) virgin hair. I really want to dye my hair this colour. Is it achievable without bleaching? What brand has good hairdye and what shades do I get to achieve this. Also want to ask how long this lasts and how it fades

u/Upset_Drummer8855 — 2 days ago

Pride and prejudice

It’s been long time that I wanted to read books, I never read any, other than my courses. So today I start adopting the reading behaviour by opening the first page of Pride and prejudice. Will it be worth it ? If you ask me why do I want to read books so it’s because I have many friends who read books and whenever they start talking about it I am blank. Also, my interest is in philosophy so someone advised me to start with Alchemists but the reviews on reddit weren’t really great so am starting with the love stories. Any advice for me?

u/Lowkey-Nonchalant00 — 3 days ago

I think I’m gonna hate whatever uni I go to

I have to choose between the top engineering schools but I think mein jahan bhi uni jaon I’m gonna hate it
Some places are secluded, some are boring, some are too posh
I can’t chose my uni cus mujhe saari hi bekaar lag rahi hain!!!😭😭😭

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u/mAyO_b4d — 3 days ago

Baba not giving me permission for uni

Idk what his problem is honestly everything was fine until a few days ago he’s suddenly saying “no you cannot go to university wahan ka mahol kharab hy” and whatever
And my stupid ass cousins are happy that i cannot go to university they were legit laughing in my face 🤡
So idk wht to do
Edit: no people i cant fight him 😭

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u/ottotheonlyotter — 4 days ago

Got scammed for 70rs 😭

Dude imagine actually going through all effort to scam someone for 70rs like thats too crazy man 😭 bro selling his self respect for some samose

u/Aggressive-Candy7961 — 4 days ago

Need a friend/gym buddy (only girls)

Hii! I’m 18 and looking for girls around my age (17–19) who go to Invictus Gym in D-12 and are also looking to make a new friend!
It doesn’t have to be like actual workout sessions together 😭. We can just motivate each other to go, get our steps in, do some cardio, follow our own routines, or just hang out at the gym. Whether your goal is losing weight, getting more active, or simply building a routine, I’m down!
And outside the gym, I’d love to actually be friends too going on walks, getting food, studying at cafés, hanging out, whatever you’re into. If that sounds like your vibe, I’d genuinely love to converse with you and talk about our hobbies and become friends online before deciding to meet in real life, I can also drive and can pick and drop you from ur house to gym or hangouts if you live in D12. Dm if you’re interested!

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u/Superb_Comparison991 — 4 days ago