Girl I’ve been seeing for a week has too many small inconsistencies — am I reading too much into it?
So I matched this girl on Hinge about a week ago. Her profile said 28, listed two well-known universities, and was looking for short term open to long. We chatted for a couple days then went on a date last week - she pushed it back twice over the course of an hour (for what seemed to be valid reasons). Date went well, we made out, and we planned a second date for that weekend.
I also noticed her profile was switching back and forth from City A to City B. Not a big deal but just something I noticed.
Saturday morning she unmatched me on the app but told me she deleted her profile - except if someone deletes their profile it doesn't show as an unmatch.
Second date she switched the spot last minute, then showed up 30 min late because she woke up from a nap - she picked the time. After dinner we went back to her parents' house (she has an apartment with a roommate but barely stays there). We hooked up for a few hours. During sex she was saying a lot of stuff - that she's super selective, that I was amazing, that I was only the second guy to ever make her orgasm, that she was gonna miss me while she’s on her trip next week. Felt like a lot of undeserved love bombing.
Hung out again the next day, talked about life. She said her last relationship was 2 years ago, longest was 1 year. Got dinner, hooked up again. She mentioned she's going out of town next week and said she wanted to see me before she leaves - so we made plans for today. Then today she randomly texts that she got food poisoning at lunch, had to go to the hospital, and can't hang out. Wants to reschedule to later this week.
Also - her profile listed an age she's actually not, and one of the schools on her profile doesn't show up anywhere on her LinkedIn. Nothing has explicitly blown up but there are just a lot of small things that don't add up.
Am I paranoid or is my gut right?