Was I too harsh or did I dodge a bad one?
I went out with this girl I met online We got along just fine, I could tell she liked me and I liked her too. However, when she asked me what I'd look for in a girl that I'd consider dating, she kept saying I was listing all things she was not. I kinda lost interest bc among those things were 'to be loyal' or having her own ambitions. However, we were drunk and eventually hooked up. We kept on chatting after that day and I could tell she was keen on meeting up again. However, I'm currently unemployed and I told her that I'd love to see her again, but I'd need for our dates to be 'simpler' bc I'm on a budget until I find a job again. She sent me a video (!) of another girl explaining why women shouldn't accept dates that aren't fancy to which I didn't reply. Couple of days later, she drunk called me and ask me for explanation on why I didn't answer and I was brutally honest. She said she didn't mean it and we went back to chatting, but the dynamic has changed. I don't feel she is as keen as she was and I clearly don't see her as a potential partner. She stopped answering my texts a couple of days ago and now I'm wondering if it's good or I rushed to pull the trigger.