u/Frequent_Smile3793

My husband of 11 years just bought me a new computer for my 38th birthday. While using an old shared flash drive to transfer my photos, I accidentally found a folder of videos... of him playing with my dildos and some other toys I’ve never even seen before! I’m completely blindsided but also highly intrigued. I absolutely love him and have zero intention of leaving him, but I definitely need to figure out what to do next. He clearly has a hidden mischievous side that he’s been keeping secret, probably out of embarrassment. How do I confront him about this in a way that’s fun, safe, and doesn't completely mortify him? I want to see where this new chapter takes us.