u/Fresh-Oil-7631

I'm 26F, in a 2-year long-distance relationship with my bf 26M. We love each other a lot and meet pretty often, but lately I realized I miss the intense flirty/sexual tension I had in a past situationship.

With my bf, flirting usually turns into a goofy "wink wink" kind of conversation instead of feeling more serious or charged. I don't want to compare him to my past, but I do miss that energy.

Any advice on how we can build that kind of tension without it turning goofy?