Asking for advice in AM setup
Hi I am 32M, recently got fixed in an AM.
I have never been in a relationship, as I had always wanted to be with my future wife as my first love.
Have a great career and educational background.
The girl(26F) I have agreed to marry had convinced me that she has also had no previous relationship or any past.
But recently I saw in her archived messages in whatsapp a chat from another man, and he said that they were each other's firsts and they had explored each other fully.
The girl had replied that stop flirting now as he is not serious about marriage and she is moving ahead with an AM match(aka me) as she has liked my profile. We had talked with each other for 2 months and had gone on a few dates before saying mutual yes.
What should be my reaction, should I confront her and ask her, or am I overreacting ? I am hesitating a bit because all the preparations for engagement and marriage are already in progress and I am not sure and extremely confused